( -*note*- There's no who's right or wrong here. I must say I don't need people like this "Mature girl here", lying to my face and calling me her friend. I don't hate her, I just don't need people like her in my life. She's been doing this ever since we started talking to each other for the past 2 years.)
*- I took out the censored words, not sure if I can post them on this site- This isn't my full blog just a small part of it*
I have never been so insulted and used my entire life by anyone. This was the lowest thing anyone has done to me. Family or no family. I've done so much for them, and they don't even bother to say thank you. Instead I get everything thrown back at my face and spit at. The worst part is, is that this person constantly kept comparing my life to hers. Saying :
"Your life is so much better, so shut up and listen to what I have to say you immature spoiled brat, You have a family and I don't so start acting like your supposed to."
And the sad part is, I couldn't say anything. I do have a family, but is that her right to make me feel like I'm a piece of trash all the time, take it in, and say nothing back because it's true?
Is it really my fault her parents treat her this way and mine don't? So what, I don't treat her badly, I actually don't feel like she deserved it! So why do I have to be treated like a piece of garbage all the time and do what she says? and the worst part is she called me a hypocrite and a liar for understanding how bad her life is, cause I didn't pick up a PLATE! A STUPID PLATE, cause my mom yelled at me. What the hell was that? Just cause she didn't like my response, she calls me a liar cause of one stupid thing?
That hurt so badly, I ended up crying all night. I have never seen someone so selfish and cruel. She was controlling my life, she thinks it's okay to offend other people's lives just because she doesn't like how they live. And she still says it was a good intention. So what? I never asked her how to act, or If I did I'd be the stupid one cause I am "spoiled," " You have a family, I don't so your too stupid and childish to understand". I'd be the wrong one, and she would yell her ass off on me and say I don't know anything.
If I was spoiled..I would have shown off and act like one, but I'm not like that. And it's not anyone's business but my own, with the relationship between me and my mom. I don't tell her on how she should act to her dad, if I did, the response I would get is " It's not your damn business!"
(-People have a habit of judging me that I'm spoiled, so I'm gonna make a point here.-)
Besides I'm not spoiled, I have to earn something to get it. I also get high grades and work hard for them in college, and I didn't ask to get paid for it, my parents feel proud of me so they treat me for working hard. So if I'm spoiled, go tell them they're doing a bad job as parents by spoiling me. Don't come to me and judge me for how my parents treat me. And she calls me a hypocrite for accusing me that I know everything. Since when did I say that? I never even gave her that attitude or impression. At least I can admit I'm wrong, but she'll never say that cause she think she's the more experienced one and that I don't deserve anything cause I'm a lower being then her.
I'm gonna stop here, if you want to read the entire article and conversation I had with her you can ask me if I should post the link or not. The sad part is she never apologized, after hurting me so badly, and she still said she loves and cares about me.
My point is.. A real friend, or someone who actually loves you, should never try to hurt you. Even if it's for a good intentions! They should never make you feel bad about what you have, and then control and manipulate you. It goes with my whole criticism article I wrote about a year ago in this blog. They shouldn't tell you how you should act or live your life! It's none of their business. No person should ever be treated like a dog by a "caring" friend, no matter what they say. Don't let anyone ever put you down for what you have, and force/yell at you to do stuff for them.